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3 ways to protect your children from bad digital footprint

What is digital footprint?

Digital footprint is simply all your data collected online. Whether your children realise it or not, they are contributing to their digital footprint each time they browse the internet.  The things that they post, sites they visit, what they like and share online all contributes to their digital footprint.

A negative digital footprint can follow your child until adulthood. It can have implications on their job and college applications. Hence, teaching your child good digital citizenship and social media etiqquete is important.

Why should you be concerned about your child’s digital footprint: 

When I was in school, I remember my teachers saying “this will be on your permanent record”. I always wondered if all my teachers had access to that record. In the digital age, the teachers would be right. There will be a permanent record of my activities on Google and social media and everyone can access it.

Not only can friends and school staff look at the things your children post, but college admissions officers and employers can access it. 70% of employers say that they make a decision about hiring someone based on things they see about the candidates on social media.

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Example of bad digital footprint in the news :

  • Dozen students from multiple schools in the Boulder, Colo., area were involved in posting rape memes, messages championing “white power,” and comments about wanting to kill black and Jewish people, KUSA and The Guardian reported. The posts resulted in the expulsion of at least five students from Boulder Preparatory High, an alternative charter school, according to the news outlets.

 

  • About 20 students at Bradford Preparatory in Charlotte, N.C., were reportedly suspended after “liking” an Instagram post that said “Bradford gon have a school shooter one day [emojis],” WCNC.com reported.

 

  • A small liberal arts school in Colorado has kicked out two of its students for anonymously penning offensive social media posts and sharing a screenshot from an episode of South Park.

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3 ways to avoid negative digital reputation:

1.Think before posting 

Think before tweeting or snapping something to avoid any regret. Before posting, consider whether it will embarrass someone else and the consequences of it on other people.

Model this behavior with your children. Let your children know that not every moment of life need to be shared and not every announcement need to be made public.

2. Learn to say sorry on social media

As much as we teach our children to think before posting, mistakes can happen. With the internet on the palm of their hands, they may post something out of anger and regret the decision later on. if this ever happens, we need to  teach them how to say sorry. Just like how we would teach them to appologise when they make a mistake in the real world.

If they have said something wrong online let them know to not be defensive, rather try saying this 3 things :

  • “I will take the post down ‘
  • “You are right”
  • “I see your point”
  • “I am sorry I did not mean to hurt you”

This is an easy way to amend a mistake that have been made online, but this is just the start. If they have said something really hurtful or post things they are not suppose too then tell your children to appologise in person to the offended party.  They should then take down the post.

3.  Do not be rude online 

We would never accept it if children use the F– word.  The same rule applies in the online world. This extends to the use of emojis, gifs and negative images. Using insulting connotations can make someone wonder about the person’s character. Insensitive comments, cyberbullying, sexual innuendos, and drunk images will raise a red flag.

College and career admission officers can go through your child’s social media profile when reviewing their application and can make a decision based on what your child post online.

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How to erase your child’s digital footprint?

  1. Make a list of all the online accounts your child has, from online shopping to the different social media platforms they are on.
  2. Go through the list of accounts and delete profiles your child no longer use. If deleting the profile is not an option, then change the information in it so it no longer ties to your child. For instance, change the display picture and name on the profile account.
  3. Do a Google search on your name using inverted coma. For instance, if I want to know everything about me on Google I will type “Parven Kaur”.
  4. If you find your child’s name being attached on a blog or website you do not want them in then contact the site owner and ask them to remove your child’s information or comment from the site.

Here are other tips to you keep children safe in the digital age : 

Tips for Non-Tech Savy Mums :4 tips to digital parenting for non-tech savy mums

Stop kids from being datafied : Are your children datafied from birth

Calculator app : Secret calculator app kids use to hide photos, videos and sexting messages

 

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